I pretty much agree with Dee- I know my man ‘notices’ things because we talk about it (for example, if we’re out shopping and there’s a girl with really nice legs (or clothes, cool hair etc.), I’m happy to mention it to him and know he is likely to have noticed as well), but he is subtle enough and doesn’t STARE that it doesn’t bother me.

I say, if you have to look, at least don’t make it too obvious! I wouldn’t want a guy ogling me in the presence of his date or girlfriend- it’s just disrespectful!


Cherry Norris August 5, 2011 at 11:17 pm Hi Rin,

Thanks for tuning in and commenting! Yes, it’s perfectly normal for a man to notice other women (as I do too … with my husband.) If he’s disrespectful, that’s your opportunity to make an agreement that he’ll at least refrain in front of you!

Have a great week!

Love, Cherry

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